Brides, you know that having a wedding planner is essential, especially for a grand celebration. To bring out the best of your vision to life, there are a lot of hands that go into making the impossible possible. But how about where it all starts? If you’re confused about the kind of wedding you want, there is an expert to help you out right from before the inception. Any idea who this may be? Don’t sweat it! The answer is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). Sound familiar? It’s a hype-specific personality test designed to help people understand themselves and others better. So why not apply the same to put together the ideal wedding that matches your personality?
Using a combination of eight letters – E(xtrovered) or I(ntroverted) + S(ensing) or iN(tuition) + T(hinking) or F(eeling) + P(erceiving) or J(udging), the test assigns a four-letter personality type that you’re likely to be. And while the test may not be a hundred percent on the dot, it’s a fun exercise that can ease out your planning and decision-making process. However, it isn’t a compulsion to stick to your own type and do as it says. In the end, it’s all about having a good time.
So check out what the test says about each personality and discover your four letters. It just might help you make the best wedding decisions!
ISTJ – The Quiet & Organized
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This personality type is quiet, practical, and organized. You value traditions, which means you’re likely to go for a classic wedding in a ballroom or your private backyard with timeless decor, and a traditional theme featuring a beautiful white wedding cake. However, if you’re more of an introvert, you may not even consider a wedding at all! Instead, you may find adventurous elopements or courthouse weddings to be your true calling. Often one to downplay the whole ‘I’m a bride’ thing, you’d rather have an intimate ceremony with your closest loved ones in a gorgeous lace number or a sophisticated little white dress. Being orderly and organized, you’re likely to love DIY-ing your day, focusing on the things that matter to you rather than opting for opulence and grandeur.
ISFJ – The Nurturing Romantic
As an ISFJ bride, you’re quiet and caring by nature. So when it comes to wedding planning, you’re likely to consider everyone else before yourself. Keeping in mind the preferences of others, you’ll welcome everyone’s opinions. But remember, this is your wedding! So don’t be afraid to reject an idea you’re not a fan of. You may want a low-key wedding, but your considerate nature will have you making the most of it to give your guests the best experience. Once again, an intimate, sensible celebration is what you’re probably looking for, something that allows you to focus on perfecting the little details that matter to you and everyone around. And a kind-hearted bride like you deserves to feel like a princess, no matter how small and intimate your wedding may be. Just imagine walking down a romantic pink aisle in a regal gown with a sweetheart neckline.
INFJ – Conscientious and Committed
You’re all about those connections and sentiments. Very efficient and hyper-focused on personal details, you still may want a smaller wedding, but you prefer to make sure everything about your wedding showcases who you are as a couple. You aren’t afraid of stepping out of the box, being expressive and creative. Your organized and decisive mind is perfect for finding the right balance between themes unique to you and ideas that make your friends and family feel the love. For those raw emotional connections, a relaxing beach or waterfront wedding may sound appealing to you. Botanical gardens are also venues your conscientious heart will favor (also because these venues are pre-decorated, of course!).
INTJ – The Ambitious Bride
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You love going all in with your thoughts and ideas. With high standards, you’re luxury wedding celebration will truly be one for the books. Having an original mind with a great drive for implementing ideas and achieving goals, nothing stops you from having a grand wedding executed to perfection. Combining creativity and bold ideas with structure and organization, you’re one to explore Pinterest pages for inspiration and navigate what works best for you. And your wedding dress? My oh my, are you bringing sexy back! You’re the kind that likes to show off a little, and that’s never a bad thing, especially on your wedding day! So display a little bit of your toned skin that you’ve been working hard on, and adorn a dress with slits and an open back.
ISTP – Tolerant & Flexible: The Problem-Solver
Rain on your wedding day? Pfft! No biggie for you, no ma’am! You are great at observing situations closely and being quick on your feet with workable solutions. These brides may be quiet but are equally fun-loving, and despite favoring perfection, they are tolerant and flexible. When it comes to creative concepts, you’re not one to shy away. You love exploring trends like a stylish donut wall or a rustic barn venue. An open food bar is also something more to your taste, leaving it to the guests to make their plates based on their personal tastes – a smart move on your part!
ISFP – The Artistic Bride
Adventurous, artsy, and always striving to live in the moment, you’re always up for just about anything new. Yet, you’re in touch with your caring side, keeping in mind everyone else’s feelings. Friendly, sensitive, and kind, you always look to find a good balance between your and others’ preferences. Your commitment to value and people’s sentiments means you’re likely to opt for chic modern minimalism to please your artistic side while also planning a brunch wedding that satisfies all the guests. You sure know how to get the best of both worlds. For you, a tropical island wedding in a luxury hotel should give you everything you need to bring your dream to life.
INFP – The Empathetic Bride
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Your empathy towards everything around you, including the people and the planet, perhaps draws you to indie, boho styles. You’re not just looking for a sustainable marriage, but give equal importance to having a laid-back, sustainable wedding. You’ll be looking for eco-friendly ideas and locally sourced wedding dresses, and you’re likely the kind to set aside proceedings for a charitable cause. Unique concepts like food trucks, a greenhouse venue, and asking your guests to donate money in place of wedding gifts are ideas you’d be inclined to. For a more eccentric experience, you could also consider a ceremony in the woods.
INTP – The Abstract Visionary
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Theoretical and abstract, these brides are more interested in ideas than social interactions. You love wild ideas and ones that make a statement about who you are. And if it’s logical, there is no second thought about it! Whether it’s themes, decor, or even your bridal dress, go for non-traditional and bold. Think floral, jumpsuits, color-blocking, and abstract patterns. You may be quiet and adaptable, but you also love to push boundaries. The best way to go about planning your ideas is by brainstorming with your fiance for a unique wedding that is all about you. So when it comes to venues, what’s the verdict? Outdoors, of course! With your logical problem-solving mind, you won’t have to bother about weather changes.
ESTP – The Fun Bride
ESTPs are incredibly fun-loving and will do everything they can to make their wedding day the most exciting and fun experience for guests. If this sounds like you, don’t think twice about it! Go for creative photo booths, plan friendly games, have a congo line, and just have the best time with your celebrations. If it’s a destination wedding you’re planning, include some pre-wedding activities to engage your guests. Art decor may be a unique theme you’d want to consider. And for a more glamorous alternative? Luxury villas and estates or even art galleries work perfectly in theme. You love exploring trends but don’t want to stray too far from the mainstream. Embellished dresses, late-night snacking, working with top-rated planners who know their stuff, and adventurous venues are a few things that are bound to be checked off your list.
ESFP – The Non-Traditional Trend-Setter
As an ESFP bride, you are cutting-edge, fashionable, and catch trends effortlessly. You make decisions based on what’s hot and what makes everyone happy. This personality is another one that gives us major eloping vibes, so if this sounds like you, perhaps find a stylish dress that is light, breezy, and easy to move in. Even for your first dance song, you’re likely to land on a feel-good, upbeat love number from one of the prominent artists right now. And how about your venue? A destination wedding is without a doubt where you’re at, so think about what is the hottest venue during your wedding month, and you’ve got yourself a place!
ENFP – The Inspired Bride
Enthusiastic and imaginative, you ENFP brides are motivators who love to think outside the box. A mix of sophistication and authenticity, your personality is a crowd-pleaser who also likes to mix things up occasionally. Incorporate bright colors, flirty patterns, and a mix of fabrics, balancing it out with soft florals. Another way to get a little crazy is with your menu. We’re talking chocolate churros, taco stands, pizzas, and more creative food servings. For your venue option, built-up structures are sure to grab your attention. Transform spaces with unique concepts to truly wow your guests. But with all the ideas you have, it’s advisable to work with a really skilled planner to help organize and bring your visions to life.
ENTP – The Bold & Edgy
Different and edgy is how you’d describe yourself. You love making a bold statement and doing something interesting that will get people talking. There is nothing wrong with classic, but you don’t want to do anything that feels passé. You want to be expressive about who you are, and your wedding should reflect the same. When it comes to dresses, opt for bold cuts that are sexy yet elegant. You’re probably imagining a colored gown, aren’t you? Play around with special cuisines for your main menu, and consider the open woods for your off-beat nuptials. A renovated movie theater is also a quirky alternative that’s as unique as you are.
ESTJ – The Practical Planner
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Practical and methodical, you’re more likely to opt for a light, flowy gown that allows swift movements rather than heavy layers that weigh you down. Enviously well organized, you plan out all the little to big details of your wedding right from the start. (Perhaps right from your engagement.) You’re likely to land on a buffet for your wedding – it’s all about efficiency. With a clear vision, you are skilled enough to get the job done with a few helping hands. For a formal affair, it can’t get any better than a black tie celebration in a stunning ballroom. Still want a second option? A beach ceremony perfectly timed for those stunning sunset photographs… Need we say any more? Your hearts are already fluttering at the thought, and so are ours!
ESFJ – The People Person
ESFJs are people-pleasers and are more likely to make decisions based on what others think. But while they consider how their choices will affect everyone around, this type is also very organized and quick to implement decisions and accomplish their goals. If you like to work with others and complete tasks accurately and on time, this might just be you. Loyal, considerate, and not one to deny appreciation, you also tend to play it safe when it comes to bold versus traditional choices. Traditional dresses are your calling, and comforting food options are always welcomed by you. Considering easy accessibility and creating a meaningful experience for your guests, you are likely to wed in a local church or any other venue that holds significance to most in your tribe, one that is more spacious, so you don’t have to cut down your guest list.
ENFJ – The Expressive Balance Queen
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For ENFJ brides, your wedding is another form of self-expression. The N in your type will want to do something new, but you’ll still be sure to work your way around making your guests feel included throughout it all. With superior people skills and warm, empathetic nature, you’re likely to find time to help others in the midst of your own wedding planning. A rustic yet elegant setting brings in the right balance between comfort and non-traditional, so why not consider a wedding in a gorgeous vineyard? A dessert bar is also a creative concept to include in your wedding, one that is equal parts familiar and unique. Plus, you can express yourself through all your favorite treats and comfort foods, because who doesn’t love a creative menu!
ENTJ – The Boss Bride
If being strategic-minded and unapologetically you sounds like you, here are a few ideas to borrow from. As born leaders, you demand attention and perfection. You’re nuanced and a little sarcastic with your humor, which can be played into your theme, decor, and dress. Find a fit that is glamorous and edgy, and rock an unexpected look that will leave everyone stunned. We’re thinking bright shoes, an embellished bridal suit, or even the most dramatic veil. A highly exclusive venue, perhaps one of the best, is something you’ll love. How does the Rainbow Room in New York sound?
If you liked the thought of letting your personality guide you to your dream wedding, you will love exploring bridal dress styles and venue recommendations based on your zodiac sign.
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