Marriage is like music, some high notes, some low notes, but played well, it produces a beautiful song. We’ve got to admit, when Ed Sheeran sings “So baby now, take me into your loving arms, kiss me under the light of a thousand stars,” we all picture our wedding day kissing the love of our life with this song in the background. Wedding music is crucial, just like any other aspect of wedding planning, it needs to be carefully selected and curated. Music sets a tone, stirs up emotions, and shares a message with your guests, so picking the right songs is the key—as is making sure they’re a good fit for the ceremony you have planned.
We’ve got Kliber Benjamin, the uber-chic owner of Discotecnik SAS who gave us a 360-degree roundup on how to choose the right wedding music. Since 2006, Discotecnik SAS offers unique and tailor-made musical entertainment for events in France and worldwide. An orchestra, a DJ, a solo artist, the agency has a catalog of exclusive artists that you will not be able to book anywhere else. Discotecnik takes care of all the musical scenography of the events that include sound, lighting, video, and ambiance decor. So put on your dancing shoes as he takes us on a rhythmic journey of music.
Your Personality Decides The Music
Music is one of the key elements of marriage. Its presence is vital to accompany the emotional moments of your day. We, therefore, propose a musical menu according to your expectations, looking for harmony, and targeting the highlights. Once again, remember that this day belongs to you. You and your partner are the protagonists of this event and you must therefore impose your musical style.
Since music is almost ubiquitous at an event like this, you must however take into account the tastes of your guests. It should neither be too loud nor too absent: your guests should feel comfortable. So it’s best that you avoid radical changes and extreme tastes, and rely on harmony and parsimony.
Classic Vs. Contemporary Ceremonies
The music also depends on the type of ceremony. In religious celebrations, we tend to resort to the classics that have filled spiritual spaces for decades, usually sung by a choir or played by an organist. These usually include classical music among their repertoire, but also acoustic versions of current songs which, performed by experienced musicians, give a gentle rhythm to the different moments of the ceremony. From the entrance of the bride to the exit of the guests, through the readings, the exchange of wedding vows and rings and consents, and the holy communion. We offer an incredible range of artistry to accompany this special moment including String quartet, Gospel, Acoustic Duet, and much more.
During civil celebrations, the choice of music is less limited. Hiring a band is the option we recommend most. They can reinterpret the couple’s favorite songs as they wish, adding a small dose of magic to the present moment. In this case, the voice is one of the most important sounds, followed by instruments such as the guitar or piano. For a Celtic, jazz, blues, or rock style music, don’t hesitate to add percussion.
Special Moments And Interludes
Throughout the evening, which usually lasts for several hours, it is customary for the music to be more discreet at times, without ever disappearing completely. It should always be present to punctuate the key moments of your wedding, as well as the interludes.
During the cocktail party, we recommend that you use background music, either played by a group or with ambient pieces. Likewise during the meal, as long as the volume does not disturb the guests and simply add “salt” to the dinner.
During “special” moments, such as giving presents or cutting the cake, increase the volume of the music: effect and emotions guaranteed! If you opt for a group of musicians, this will create animation and encourage your guests to participate more.
The First Dance Has To Be “Your” Song
Luckily, the choice of this song is up to you. This is the time of the wedding when you have the most musical freedom and you can afford all kinds of genres, even the most unusual ones. Fancy a tango? A heavy metal version entry? Don’t worry, few couples resort to ceremonial singing and usually pick a song from their personal collection. By choosing music that is close to your heart, your love connection during the dance will only get stronger, as if you were alone in the world. In this sense, the dance does not have to be a waltz, it is usually determined by the musical genre of the song chosen.
Top 10 Songs For First Dance
Running out of ideas? Take a look at our selection of music for a successful first dance:
Let The Dance Floor Have Common Songs
The dance floor is a bit like the cherry on the wedding cake or the cake topper. It is also a perilous part because you have to be careful not to extinguish the atmosphere or break the musical harmony established throughout the day. For this reason, don’t let your tastes get completely carried away, lest they clash with those of the majority.
Seniors will be all the more satisfied if certain songs they know are included in the program. Modern songs are generally alternated with older ones, always without falling into extremes or clichés. The dance floor is often mostly occupied by adults and young adults.
Every client presents a unique opportunity to deliver something special. We offer all clients tailor-made music styling specific to each individual’s needs. Through meetings in person or via video conference, we take time to create the perfect selection for each occasion. From lounge sets to dance floor selections, we create an unforgettable experience the guests will be talking about for years to come.
Renowned for their attention to detail, Discotecnik SAS since 2006 has been one of the most preferred vendors for top venues, and event planners in France and worldwide. Their approach to music styling is unique, eclectic, and totally focused on creating an outstanding party experience. The Discotecnik team will hand-pick the perfect line-up tailored to your event, with artists you can’t book anywhere else. A dedicated music expert will guide you through the planning process, managing every element to guarantee a flawless performance. The latest professional equipment and the quality of the speakers are the two strengths of Discotecnik.
Understand the power of emotion with music, they deliver a bespoke experience. They also offer a suite of technical production services including lighting, sound, video, and projection, set build and staging, rigging, and power.
Get that extra groove on your special day by having a sizzling musical performance by the fab team at Discotecnik! Book them here!
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